Faith in the Journey, Special Needs Parenting

It Takes a Special Dad to Raise a Special Child

It takes a special dad to raise a special child.

Sometimes you may feel that you are unnoticed after having a child with a disability, subsequently silencing your pain.

I hear you in your silence.

Life as you once expected, suddenly spins in a different direction…Dreams and hopes you had for your child change.

I acknowledge your pain.

You sleep against the wall in the hospital waiting room so that your wife can stay in the ICU with your child when a precarious medical complication leaves you so insecure that you do not want to leave the hospital.

I notice your sacrifice.

You take on a high stress job in order for your family to get good health insurance for the many procedures that will be needed.  You also work long and tiring hours to provide for your family.

I see your stress.

You find an innovative way to teach your child balance due to his physical disability so that he can learn how to ride a bike.

I appreciate your resourcefulness.

You assist in coaching your son’s little league baseball games after pulling your night shift at work.

I see you’re devoted.

You use your vacation time for an upcoming medical procedure your child is having.

You are selfless.

You pray for your family.

God hears your prayers.

To all the dads helping raise a child with a special need, and especially to my husband:

You are loved and appreciated!

Happy Father’s Day!

God Bless

Lisa

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